Ladies. Pay attention. When someone asks you what kind of person you want to be, and you're making pffting noises over the 'can't do anything for herself / constantly needs to be rescued / needs someone to take care of her' choice, I beseech you. Think again. The stoic, has answers and comfort for everyone and everything choice gets old. And it shows on your skin and your eyes and you get little lines at the corner of your mouth which makes you look defeated all the time and nobody wonders why. Make your choices wisely.